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A stereotypical example (but often true) is men who will put up with a less than ideal interpersonal connection for beauty and/or fabulous sex.Ultimately, how long most people are willing to stick around is way more complex than one’s commitment tendencies.Only then will they commit to a lasting relationship. a man didn’t leave a relationship that made him feel uncomfortable. Sometimes it is a particular thing that he does, sometimes it the way in which he does things. When men are on the job and they don’t perform they are fired. The boss does not go out and get himself a therapist to figure out why he fired the lazy guy.Men over 65 or so are much easier to embrace than younger ones. What if he went ahead and did the things that he needed to feel comfortable (but thought and felt that his partner would not like these behaviors. If a woman shows me a way that works better for me, I’m on it in a New York minute. We treat men in this society like some exotic bird who needs special diets, cleaning and the like. If a man does not perform in the army he’s court marshaled.
Since all relationships require it, the real question is how much and what type of compromise is a man willing to make for a specific partner.
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Of course this applies to women too, but the types of compromises tend to be different – and possibly, the willingness to make them.
Beyond this generality, many specific compromises are different with each relationship – depending on the personalities and chemistries involved.